So How's Married Life

Okay so I have been married since April. We had lived together for 3 years before so why are people asking me "how's married life" as if something has changed. I feel like saying "Married life is sooo different is like I'm a completely different person. I am whole where I was halved." I really say "the same as shacking up" because it is. Marriage is only different if you do something crazy like change your name or combine your money. I did not do either of these things because I don't want someone to get mad that a bought something nor do I feel the need to volunteer my purchases. And I really don't want the hassle of changing my name. In fact since we are not filing our taxes together I checked the single boxes on my tax forms for my new job. I felt a little like I was cheating on a test when I did it. So I hope I never hear myself saying "how's married life"

My Sister

My sister is coming up and leaving her children and husband at home. Me and my sister are both married but she has children which are a big time and energy taker. I should know I work with them everyday. Anyway my sister is like my husband likes to be alone and spend time in the house. I don't know when this exactly happened to my sister. It was before she got married but she was never single. She has been dating her now husband since college. So anyway she is coming up and I am forcing her to go out and have a good time outside of my house. We are going to the Melting Pot for dinner, Evita and then drinking out in Baltimore. So what I do every month or so minus the show or the dinner for that matter but whatever. I think I am going to take her to the 13th floor last time I went there I had such a good time. I went with Ally and it was so fun. So I am excited and I not going to take no for an answer about going out. My Mother made me promise not to get her too drunk so.............

Sex in the City

Okay so I knew what sex in the city was about before I watched it but Oh my God what haters. Maybe my problem I know no one is going to sleep with my husband because I can barely get him off the computer to sleep with me and the only reasons he leaves the house is to go to work or when I force him to or to play role playing games. Maybe I starting to figure out my own answers here. My boyfriend prior to me was not a "swinging single" so I don't even think about if a women I am talking to is single or not. And their is no "we" unless I'm talking about me and Ally or me and Cara or me and Emily or me and Heather. I don't know but I have come to a point where I don't like how married women are portrayed in the shows I want to watch. And again can someone tell where these herds of married couples are so I can go graze with them. Just to see what married people are like because I still don't know.